Dating and Marriage

I think with any relationship communication, openness, and commitment are all key factors in making it last. I do agree that a relationship should supply some type of self-fulfillment. There are always stories where people say they never felt complete until they met their spouse. I believe that is important. A relationship should allow you to discover more about yourself, and make you feel whole and connected to your partner.The couple should be able to grow from being around one another. That makes the connection between two people special. I don't think the type of self-fulfillment described in the New York Times is healthy though.To me it seemed extreme. A person shouldn't commit to a relationship because they won't bored .It is important to have self-sacrifice and want to be in a relationship because you want to work with your partner and make them happy. I don't like the idea of being in a relationship to gain something. Personally, in a relationship I hope for someone I can easily talk to ,feel connected to, and grow from.I believe these intentions represent Christian values and modern values because I want to grow, but I also want to grow with my spouse.